I joined match.com, but after joining the majority of the profiles are people that haven't been on there in over a couple of weeks or profiles without any photos and no information either on their profile. And when contacted by some members they are not in the new jersey area and was also asked to give them money. And they charge for any special apps I. E. Verification that your email is being read or if you want to use your cell phone is another fee! And when I asked for a complete refund of my fees. My membership was deactivated, even though they would not refund my fees! So I had to reactivate my account again.