This dating website is a complete and total gamble. I was emailing back and forth with this "girl" who is supposedly in the army. We communicated for about two weeks and everything seemed like it was going in the right direction. Before I knew it I get an email from "her" telling me that she needs $200 for her sick sister in Nigeria. An obvious scam. I recommend to anyone trying this site to be cautious of people asking you for your email address almost right away. Also be wary of people that tell you that they can't use a cellphone because they are in a military base and cellphones are not allowed. They will also tell you that they are not allowed to use anything like Skype or FaceTime. Basically if you feel that it's starting to sound too good to be true it probably is.